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Mastering Monogramming

Mastering Monogramming

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May 14, 2025

Mastering Monogramming: A Complete Guide to Southern Style

Monogramming is a beloved tradition in Southern style, and no one does it better than Southerners themselves. Whether you're new to monogramming or looking to refine your technique, this guide will walk you through the proper etiquette for creating beautiful, personalized designs.

What You’ll Need:

    • Item to Monogram: Anything from stationery and silverware to linens, clothing, purses, jewelry, and even furniture! In the South, we’ll monogram anything that stays still long enough.
    • Embroidery Machine: I highly recommend the PFAFF® creative™ Icon 2 or the Husqvarna® Viking® Epic™ 2—both are fantastic options.
    • Embroidery Thread: Have a variety of shades on hand.
    • Stabilizer: Choose one specific to your project.
    • CREATIVATE™ Embroidery Software

Proper Monogram Etiquette:

Traditional 3-Letter Monogram

Center the last name initial in the largest type, flanked by the first name initial on the left and the middle name initial on the right, both in smaller type.

 

Example: Amy McMullen Barzee would be ABM
Modern 3-Letter Monogram

List the first initial, middle initial, and last initial in the same size type in that order.

 

Example: Amy McMullen Barzee would be AMB
Modern 3-Letter Monogram

List the first initial, middle initial, and last initial in the same size type in that order.

Example: Amy McMullen Barzee would be AMB
2-Letter Monogram

Use the first and last name initials in the same size type. This is typically only for individuals.

Example: Amy McMullen would be AM**
1-Letter Monogram

Use the last name initial for a single-letter monogram.

Example: Amy McMullen Barzee would be B
His and Hers Monogram:

For married couples, there are two traditional monogram formats. Consistency in order across all items is recommended for a cohesive look.

Ladies First: The wife’s first name initial, the couple’s married last name initial (center and largest), followed by the husband’s first name initial.
Example: Amy & Justin Barzee would be ABJ

Traditional Order: Husband’s first name initial, the last name initial (center and largest), followed by the wife’s first name initial.
Example: Justin and Amy Barzee would be JBA
Special Cases:

Double Name: For a married woman with a double name, use a double initial stack.
Example: Amy Carol McMullen Barzee would be BM**

Different Last Names: If one partner keeps their last name, the monogram should include both.
Example: Amy McMullen and Justin Barzee would be AMJB**

 

Go Forth and Monogram the World!

Now that you know the basics, you’re ready to add a touch of Southern charm to everything you own!

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